Welcome
Life. Metaphysics. Choice.Hey,
I am Matt Selley, writer, speaker and pretty normal guy who ponders a lot. Probably way too much to be honest…
Anyway, welcome to my blog!
I write about my two main loves in life, no, not stick insects and Marmite, but self-development and metaphysics.
Self-development because everyone has some shit they are working through and metaphysics because it adds a further dimension as to why and what may be affecting things.
The main focus of my work is the spiritual, psychological, scientific, geometric, yogic, and a few more other things.
I am passionate about, making my work relatable and simply keeping it real through analogies, social commentary and (usually dry) humour.
Although I’ve been a speaker on such topics for the past 15 years, I don’t consider myself a teacher and anything I present is of my own interpretation, experience and observation (which of course is usually very, very correct) 🙂
So, if you would like to read up on the nature of reality and living an authentic life, check out the articles below.
If you resonate with what I have to say, great, if not, let me introduce Eckhart Tolle.
Best
– Matt
LATEST ARTICLES

Spirituality Through the Mind
Oh, the problems that can occur when we absorb spirituality through the mind only, leaving the heart absent
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Pockets of Genius
Throughout history, why are there splatterings of genius in various fields, all within close proximity of each other and within the same timeframe?
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Psychics and Skynet – The Prediction Paradox
‘The Prediction Paradox’ – When a psychic makes a prediction, do we create that outcome unconsciously in the future, thus allowing the psychic to see it in the past?
Therefore, where did it originate?

What we Believe to be True
Why are some things that we take for granted as being true, not true at all? And what effect does this have on us when we use them for foundations of our beliefs?
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The Art of Being Triggered
What happens when we are emotionally ‘triggered’ and what steps can we take to ensure we own our emotions and that we do not react conversely?
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Men – Colour and Emotion
Emotions, like colours, can usually be described in great detail by women. So why do a lot of men have a hard time recognising emotional states and how they are feeling at any given time?
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